Self love

As-salamu alaykum(Peace be upon you)

Being loved by someone or love someone, both are the most beautiful feelings in this world, that’s what most people say and believes. I have heard people saying that ‘I can’t live without him/her’…..blah blah blah goes on and on but my question is how???? Seriously how??? Though, Here I am not including bloodline(family members) and Almighty ofcourse!

Don’t you think people are confused and mistakenly considering responsibilities, care, condition, no way out, family pressure, with love and the worst part is that they are enjoying it like that knowingly or unknowingly. “Love” giving more than you should creates a huge problem, always!

Don’t consider me an evil non-loving girl but comeon we are wasting all the love in the extremely wrong direction and how can you give someone, something so much that you, yourself lack off. For example If you are full of some specific knowledge, wisdom then only you are capable of passing it on or else just pretending won’t help at all, in the same way before giving love on sale with a block letter saying ‘buy 1 get zillion free’ love yourself, please….!   

Love your raw-self as much as you can because no one, I repeat no one can do that for you apart from your own self. Self-love is the most important thing and a priceless gift you can give it to yourself. This is so silly that when we grow up as so-called social animals,Self-love transfers into self-ignorance which later turns into selfless in each term and condition.

Loving your raw-self, flaw-one, imperfect one, out of box one, carefree one, desire-one, dreamful one, selfish one, lust one. The one which the world defined as “RED ZONE-not allow”. Just love every inch of your true-self, unfiltered-one at every given stage of life. It takes a great courage to go back to start loving yourself, but worth a try and once you get used to it, love giving becomes so easy in a real sense, you will become more open to love, life,  thought process and the real meaning of your existence.

There are a lot of humans ready to pull you down at every microsecond of your life, you don’t need one more you to do that. When the entire world is against you and you are the only one standing strong for your own self that matters a universe in that situation and can completely turn the table upside down. Here the mantra is not just loving yourself but knowing the real you, inside-out and accepting that in all way,so here i am introducing my module of  ‘four-step self love method’ which is as simple and as important as it seems- 

  1. Know yourself  “raw-self”.
  2. Standing tall with who you are.
  3. Improve yourself,only if you feel like.
  4. Love the entire process and fall in love with yourself even more.

The step is hell hard at the beginning, I do agree but please do give it a try for yourself, enough for others, it’s time to stop and give yourself a try, a solid try!

When you absorb the love 


 When you reflect the love”

-soha kapadia

Love is sometimes big, sometimes small, sometimes infinite, sometimes finite, sometimes with boundaries, sometimes without boundaries, sometimes with sense, sometimes without sense, sometimes with lust, sometimes without lust, sometimes wanted, sometimes unwanted, sometimes real, sometimes fake, sometimes from heart, sometimes without heart, sometimes for the world, sometimes for yourself, sometimes innocent one, sometimes sharp one, and the list goes on and on – “different shades of love”. Reflection of love will make the surrounding area foggy with love and maybe sometimes rain of love, and everything will fall into perfect places.

The choice lies in your hand which love you choose, which one you get into and for self -love, the only thing that matters is “YOU” and only “YOU”. it’s time you should get some “self-face” on and love the hell out of yourself because the most important human in your life in and after is “YOU” and only “YOU” 

Be the first priority of yourself


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Women’s day…..!


Happy women’s day to all the fathers, brothers, husbands, sons, sirs, in-laws, boy friends and,
to all the men in our lives who never ever discriminate our existence and are always so proud of us

Hopelessly lost

As-salamu alaykum(Peace be upon you)

There are situations in life where you know what to do and with that ‘what to do’ you get a confidence booster as well but what to do in a situation where you can’t stop chanting ‘I don’t know’.

In this post I tried to pen down a poetic approach towards hopelessness and how you can’t give up in the worst of the worst scenario. This poem is for you, me, us, and everyone who ever felt this way, so let’s just dive in;/

How to feel happy? I Don’t Know

How to stop feeling lonely all the time? I Don’t Know

How to bury all my worries deep down? I Don’t Know

How to kick out the anxiety? I Don’t Know

How to stop my brain from speaking zillion voices all at once and always? I Don’t Know

How to enjoy the calmness? I Don’t Know

How to sleep like a baby? I Don’t Know

How to eat like a free spirit? I Don’t Know 

How to embrace the relaxation in my head? I Don’t Know

How to live life? I Don’t Know

How to die? I Don’t Know

How to put the act of being all normal and ok to an end? I Don’t Know

How to remove this heaviness from my chest? I Don’t Know

How to control this uncontrollable flow of tears that holds my date every night? I Don’t Know

How to laugh from the soul? I Don’t Know

How to feel the positivity? I Don’t Know

How to save myself from drowning in the black dark ocean? I Don’t Know

How to open up to the people I love the most? I Don’t Know

I just freaking don’t know anything, ‘Just don’t know’. but Somehow Somewhere deep inside, I know that I can’t give up, that I can’t lose the battle, that I am stronger than I know myself, just I know that…..

and If I can do…. So can YOU….

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Every second~ I long to hold you so tight like there’s no other but just You&Me,
I need you,
I want you,
In all my mood swings above and beyond,
I have to have you anyhoo,
Your Warmth,
Your Smell,
Your Kiss,
N……and everything that i can’t express as Ineffable emotions are damn difficult to put into words but You My Love, More than Love❤💌

Falling Apart

As-salamu alaykum (Peace be upon you) 

And just like that …..

Moon shining in the Memories,  

Star becoming Falling Star,

  Wind changing its Direction, 

Clouds traveling in a Foreign Land,

Sky watching the Departure, 

Birds hoping for Sun Rays,

Eyes lingering for Rain,

Trees trying to hang some positivity, 

Flower blossoming in the Hopes,

But still,

Everything is falling apart 

Everything is fading away

In million ways,

In million hopes,

In million tears,

In million pieces,

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